Wednesday, August 23, 2006

Heartache

I heard some bad news today. I found out that one of my "favorite" students at school--a Senior!--was expelled from school due to a bad decision he made at the high school retreat. I honestly don't know much more than that as to what exactly the offense was (although a girl was expelled as well)--and I don't need to know--but this just makes me very sad and disappointed. I'm sure this student had no intententions of wrongdoing but just let wrong thinking get in the way. I hope and pray that he doesn't allow this wrong thinking to become a manner of life, but accepts God's forgiveness and allows this to strengthen his resolve to walk with the Lord.

It is so easy to make "stupid" decisions...but our actions do have consequences. It is VERY easy and tempting to think that one little thing won't make a difference, or it won't matter if I do this one wrong thing that lasts but a fleeting moment...but that's a lie. What we do will affect not only the rest of our school year but quite possibly the rest of our lives. (I know I will definitely miss this person around school.) We never even realize sometimes how our actions affect those around us--especially those who look up to us. It is so easy to want to do something "stupid" (I know I am tempted sometimes!) UNLESS we are keeping our focus on God and His marvelous plan for our lives.

I believe Pastor Viars is planning to speak from the life of Jonah soon and how his actions had consequences for those around him. Just think of the men on the ship with Jonah who almost drowned! I need to keep an eternal focus whenever I am tempted to think that what I do will only affect me. That is definitely not true.

This is also a good reminder to me of how important it is to keep being daily renewed in my mind (Rom. 12:1-2, Phil. 4:8) or else it is easy to just get caught up in the worldly things of the moment. By spending time with the Lord EACH DAY (which is a struggle for me) I am helping myself to make right choices and, more importantly (what I need to work on) to think right thoughts.

(BTW, since this is a matter of common knowledge, I don't see this blog as gossip, but rather just sharing my thoughts and what I have learned and been reminded of through this situation in MY life.)

5 comments:

Roberto said...

You make a lot of good points. The short-term mind that many people (including myself) have causes them to make poor decicsions. That doesn't justify anything. It's just a fact.

Anonymous said...

BTW, he's only suspended. He'll come back next semester.

Roberto said...

You make a good point...a lot of them actually. Many times, the short-term is all that people see. They don't realize just what might happen if they get caught. Oh...he's only suspended. He'll probably come back next semester.

MIZ Sarah said...

It is a good reminder of the actions we are doing now and how it will affect us in the future and what are we doing about it and how is God working in our lives so that we dont make mistakes but by continually asking God to help us through every decision in our life.

bethoven said...

Thanks, anonymous, for that clarification. I wasn't aware of how that all worked.